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A Letter To Adoptive Mamas
I love that not even 2 days go by without someone asking how our adoption is going. The expectation and support of Our People is epic. The smiles and hugs and prayers and “It’ll happen”s keep us from getting discouraged. Also, the baby books and cookies don’t hurt either (The cookies are for us. So … Continue reading
Adoption Update: A Surprise Twist
I once woke up to find a note under my pillow that told me we were flying to California for my uncle’s wedding. At 11, I had never been on a plane and California seemed to be about The Coolest Thing that could happen to my 5th grade self. But the waiting—it was agony. Luckily, … Continue reading
Goodbye, Grandfather
It’s been one of those weeks (months?) where I seem to be jumping from crisis to crisis. Thankfully, God has provided sunshine, dear family and friends, and enough chocolate chip cookies to see me through. Last week, I went home to celebrate his life and mourn the loss of my Grandfather. This week, my heart … Continue reading
Farewell
On Monday morning, after a long and full life, my Grandfather passed away. It’s been a sad and crazy week, trying to study for finals (tomorrow and Thursday–BLEGH), arrange travel and process this loss. I’m so thankful for dear friends who’ve given us food and grace, and loving family members who rally to support one … Continue reading
Dear Western Bride of a South Asian Groom, Part I
A dear friend asked me recently for advice as she prepares to wed her South Asian Man. What advice could I give? I am a semi-competent wife, failing to love and listen and learn quite often. I am biased, confused and process things in categories that make sense to me (but maybe not to others). … Continue reading
